Should You Start A Blog?

Every week someone questions me about blogging and whether or not it’s a good idea to start one. Sometimes it’s a close friend, a family member, a friend of a family member, someone I went to high school with or just someone who follows my blog. I am always so overwhelmed with the fact that anyone would even come to me seeking advice or help regarding a blog since I am barely becoming comfortable with my own. Although, I am always flattered.

Since I have received so many questions from different people about whether or not they should start a blog I decided to write about it because there are probably a couple of people out there who do have questions but aren’t open to asking or are on the fence about the idea of starting a blog alone.

Been there, sister!

I started my blog a couple of months ago and I was one of the very few people that I personally knew who had one, which is why I’m open to answering questions for people because I didn’t have many people I could talk to about my concerns and obvious questions. Luckily, I have friends who do other things in social media, but no one I knew personally had a blog, which left me clueless a lot of the time. I did a lot of research on my own before starting this blog and I was extremely hesitant to even begin because I was so afraid of failure. If you’ve thought about a blog, this might be or might have been something that kept you back. DON’T LET IT.

BUT SERIOUSLY, now that I’ve been doing it for some time (3 months maybe), I’ve learned a few things that I want to share with people who are interested in blogging.

Being a new blogger I would say that I am very naive when it comes to whether or not it is smart to start a blog, but I always tell people who are interested the same thing, so here it goes:

If you feel like you have a story to tell or something to continuously share with people, do it. I personally wanted to start a blog because I knew that there were so many things that I was going to be doing in the upcoming months that I needed to share with the world. Sometimes I like to share things like skincare products because I’m into that stuff and I personally like seeing recommendations from my favorite influencers, so I share my insights on products with you. Other posts may be about what I am learning as a young, newly wed wife who is new to the baseball life. And sometimes there are little things I like to share because I think it may serve a purpose and help one of my followers/readers. If you’re a great cook, start your cooking blog if you know you have some crazy delicious recipes that people would want to learn. If you are a new mom that thinks she has some cool mom hacks to share with pregnant women or women who are going through the same walk of life that you are, go for it. Maybe you’re someone who travels a lot and you want to start a travel blog, go for it because I know every time I go on a trip I look up other blogs for advice on what to do or not to do when going somewhere, or must stop places, etc. Whatever it may be, if you feel like you have something people would want to read or you have something people could learn from, go for it.

Do it for the right reasons. People still ask me if this is my new job. I wish. I do it because I like to, not because I want to make money. I have made some money off of my blog, but it barely buys me a Chick-fil-A meal. NOTHING CRAY. If this does end up being successful enough for me to not work then I’ll roll with it, but my goal isn’t to make money. My goal is to share my life with y’all because I know a lot of people can relate to my posts, whether it’s baseball related, beauty related, or whatevzzz because I like to. If you’re doing it for the money, you won’t get very far because people will see that through your posts.

Quality over quantity. It is a crazy world once you’re in it. Once I started following other bloggers I realized how much time and effort they put into their blog. I was afraid that I wouldn’t be successful because I didn’t have the time to post pictures every day like others did. I didn’t have content to write about three or four times a week like others did. One of my good friends told me that I should focus on what I write, not how much I write and it really resonated with me. I only write about once a week, and that’s because I can produce one good blog a week. Once a week is my goal. Anything more I’d be writing absolute BS just to have more posts up. Make sure your content serves a purpose. Don’t write a blog post because you only wrote one the entire month and you don’t want to fall off and lose followers. You will lose followers if you’re writing just to write, and trust me people can tell. You’ll know what is good content and what isn’t. I could write a blog post every day if I wanted to, but they would probably suck. So, just remember to write about things that are helpful or serve a purpose. Like I said before, do it for the right reasons.

Determine your own success. Some people may say that having the most followers makes them successful or if they end up blogging as their sole job they’re successful. Do not let anyone else’s idea of success dictate your idea of what success is going to be or what it is for your blog. My personal definition of success for my blog is having a following that truly enjoys my blog posts. As long as I receive positive feedback and encounter a ton of engagement on my posts, then I feel satisfied. That may or may not be what success is to you. Define it yourself. Do not fall into the pressure of meeting the same goals everyone else has.

Like I said- I’m not a big time blogger and I’m fairly new to this, but whenever someone comes to me with questions, these are the things I consistently tell them in regards to starting a blog. You can apply this to any social media platform for that matter. If you have any other questions about what I do for my blog or if you need more advice on how to do certain things or how to start in general, please do not hesitate to ask me. I am all about community over competition. There is so much room for everyone on the internet. There is no need to be selfish about tips and tricks, especially if we can share with people to help them do something they want to do.

6 Podcast’s you should listen to for #girlboss inspiration

Who even listens to podcasts, right? Me. And you should too. I didn’t understand podcasts at first because I was the person that much rather watch a YouTube video or watch tv or jam out to my fave country music. Anything but a podcast. I thought that they were boring and just another form of an audiobook with monotone voices. Not anymore. I was wrong, so so wrong. And I feel sorry for having such a negative stereotype towards podcasts. Now I have to remind myself that I need to stay “current” and turn on new music because once I find a good podcast, I’m out.

Once I started my blog I knew I needed to dig deeper and learn more because in this day and age of social media, you can never know enough. There is an endless amount of information to learn every day. I have stumbled across a few great podcasts that have helped stimulate my mind or just made me happy as I take on this new blogging journey.

The range of podcasts are wide and I’m so glad that it is. There’s a series for everyone. YUP, a series. It’s almost like watching a tv series without the visual. Right now I’m going to tell you all about my favorite podcasts at the moment that have helped me grow as a newbie blogger and hopefully they can help you with your social media journey or business endeavor you might be on or that you have been thinking about taking on.

Here are a few of my faves that motivate and inspire me:

Blessed and Bossed Up

The creator of the podcast’s name is Tatum Temia and she is an awesome woman of God who is pursuing this podcast to help other women. Throughout her podcast she gives all the glory of her success to God, which is what I like. She works her christianity into her motivation and entrepreneur tips, which is everything I need when my schedule is hectic. What could be better than inspo for business and getting your daily dose of Jesus? NOTHING. To make it even more of a hit, she’s hilarious. I was actually recommended to her podcast by another blogger, @littlemixico. I’m so glad this podcast exists. If you’re a #girlboss with love for Jesus, then this is for you.

Rich Bitch

Angie Lee has become one of my favorite people to listen to. She is the most adorable and hilarious girl ever, yet she’s professional and successful. PERF. As most of these podcasts I’m referring you to, she motivates the listener by giving her own experiences in business and shares her secrets to growth, challenge, and all else. My favorite thing about her podcast is her personality and how she teaches the listeners based on trial and error. Everything that she has focused on in her podcast is because she’s been there and learned from that. Therefore, she is knowledgable to speak on certain issues with a lot of confidence. This has to be one podcast I can listen to for hours.

Manifestation babe

This podcast series is about how boss babes manifested the lives that they wanted and talks about how to do so if that’s the path you are on. It’s almost like the law of attraction. I don’t listen to these in replacement of my faith, but they do help motivate me by hearing other women and show how they manifested their dreams and reached their goals. The woman behind this series is Kathrin Zenkina and she is a personal development and mind coach. We all know that our mind is our biggest enemy sometimes, which is why this is such a great help. I love being reminded to manifest good and positive things. Anything that will better me, I’m all about. I’m sure some of you are into bettering your mind and looking for that breakthrough moment to give you a kick to get started on whatever goal you have set for yourself. If so, then this podcast is one for you!

Hashtags and Stilettos

I know, it’s getting repetitive hearing about motivation and girl boss women. This podcast was instantly addicting because it gets straight to the point and lays it all out. Do this, not that. Try this, instead of this. And the tips and examples this podcasts gives is everything we should all know for marketing ourselves or our brand. If you’re going to listen to any of these, listen to this podcast. Everything Sakita writes resonates with me so well. The podcast is a newer one without as many episodes, but that just makes me that more excited to see what this podcast brings to that table. It makes goals more tangible for the every girl, which is what I am. I’m nowhere near being a famous blogger, but I’m where I want to be because podcasts like this are giving me the guidance required on this blog’s journey.

She Did It Her Way

For millennial girl boss minded women entrepreneurs who are striving to better themselves and their businesses. They cover topics that can help you plan a good week, send good emails, mistakes to avoid when using social media, bouncing back from a low point, literally EVERYTHING. The guests that are on the series are always super influential and have the greatest advice you could receive. Since there is always special guests on the pod, you always get a wide range of advice from people with different aspects on business/growth.

Biz Chix

This one is definitely focused on straight business for women, which is cool because if you have any type of social media line of work, such as a blog or YouTube it’s essentially a business. I love this podcasts because it’s helped me with my marketing, how to prioritize ideas, how to grow my blog successfully and time management. All of those things are crucial to being successful in this big pond that social media is. The guests that are on this podcasts always have something that we can take away from listening to their podcast.

Until next time,


Champagne and Influencers

Ladies!!! Let’s begin with this: Stop letting fear hold you back. Once we break through, there’s a world full of opportunities and experiences that we are able to indulge in when we stop letting fear restrain us.

I know I was so afraid to start this blog because there are SO many successful, amazing, talented bloggers who just have it all together already. Like c’mon, these people literally live to take cute pictures and post it to their Instagram. Actual goals. I didn’t want to start from the bottom because when I compared myself to the people who already broke through, I didn’t stand a chance. At first I didn’t see it as fear, I just knew something was restricting me. I didn’t think there was room for me on the internet, but truth be told, we’re in a time where the amount of room is endless because the internet is an infinite space. There’s always room because we all have something unique to bring to the table.

I am so glad I took a shot and allowed myself to blog.

This past Sunday I attended an event hosted by Bumble Bizz and Bloggerswhobrunch. One of my sweet #girlboss girlfriends gave me a heads up about this event. I didn’t know what to expect so I brought along two of my best friends, that way if it was completely awful I wouldn’t be alone. But it ended up being the total opposite of awful.

It was held in Los Angeles, California. We were lucky enough to be able to attend this event at The Grove, which is an outdoor shopping mall filled with mostly high end stores. There was a small grass area in the middle of The Grove that was roped off for the event. There was a bar with complimentary prosecco 🤤, as well as a couple other drinks that had names that referenced Bumble. How freaking cute, right? Anyways, there were some tasty little appetizers as well. What better way to win a bloggers heart; Prosecco and finger foods. The companies who constructed the event gave away so many adorable goodies. I came home with a bag from Bumble, a yellow Bumble champagne flute, a new popsocket, bright yellow pens, a queen bee pin and so much more. They had these dainty photo booths set up because we all know girls love taking pictures. It was all charming.

Ok, but let’s get to the real stuff. Yeah, that wasn’t even the best part, (I know what the heck). The women I met at this gathering, THE WOMEN, I gotta give it to them. I met the most inspiring and helpful ladies ever. We met a handful of ladies who we conversed with. We learned about what brought us each to the event and what we did and where we wanted to be. So not only was it overwhelming (in a good way) to be surrounded by people who were eager to be successful in the same niche as me, but it was so helpful to hear what they’ve learned. Some of the conversations I had were exactly what I never knew I was looking for. These ladies and I all believed in each other and you can tell it was genuine. They gassed me up for my future posts and what I plan to do with my blog. Who wouldn’t want to be a part of something like that?

In those moments of encouragement and wisdom, all my anxiety about blogging went away. These people who may or may not be where they want to be were selfless enough to share their tips and tricks to getting better with one another even if they weren’t “there” yet either. THERE IS ROOM FOR EVERYONE and if there isn’t…well then I know we’re going to make some room so that there is.

This event made me feel so comfortable with what I’m doing and where I aim to take this.

And I started off speaking about fear because if it wasn’t for me breaking through and letting go of my tiny fears then I wouldn’t have experienced this lovely afternoon with brilliant women. I shook my doubts about going to this event and I learned so much more and I left that brunch feeling inspired to keep going. I want to put whatever content out here that I find useful or interesting. But most importantly, the time spent with those influencers made me happy. I am genuinely glad that I chose to start this new creative outlet and I’m genuinely glad that the people who do it also find bliss in what we are doing. I am happy because I found something where I feel like I have a space to grow and learn without boundaries. I can see myself doing this, I can see myself being a part of this community. And just like that, it happens. Girl boss mindset on.

If you are letting doubt hold you back from what ever it is, don’t! There is much more to gain than what we think we can lose. We all start somewhere and even if we don’t become success stories, we can say we gave it a chance. However you can apply this to your life, I hope it helps motivate you. If you’re a blogger I hope you get involved with any event that pertains to you. Give @bumblebizz and @bloggerswhobrunch a follow.